Icing on the Cake: Local group helps make children’s birthdays special

By Jaya Patil/For InsideNoVa

April 6, 2023

Christopher was very impressed with his birthday cake.

Many organizations deliver flowers, fruit, packages and personal messages, but one in Northern Virginia delivers love – along with cakes.

Libby Gruender founded Cake4Kids in California 13 years ago to provide homemade cakes to local children on their birthdays. Volunteers expanded the nonprofit across the state, baking and delivering cakes to children who otherwise might not have one.

Cake4Kids partners with schools, agencies and individuals to serve children who are in foster care, low-income homes or experiencing homelessness or other difficulties.

Fair Oaks resident Mary Campbell read about the organization while looking for more to do close to home. “For a lot of these children, it may be the first cake they ever received,” she said.

For Campbell’s kids, volunteering was essential when her husband was an active Navy captain and they were moving frequently. “It's a great way to help them have roots, which is hard when you're a military child.”

She asked Cake4Kids leadership if she could start a chapter in Virginia. After more than a year of logistics and paperwork, Campbell founded Cake4Kids Northern Virginia in April 2019, the first chapter outside of California.

One of the cakes made by volunteer baker Phyllis Maggio, one of the 30 Cake4Kids volunteers in Prince William County.

The chapter now has more than 600 volunteers and has partnered with over 100 local agencies. Cake4Kids Northern Virginia has baked some 3,600 cakes since 2019, with over 200 cakes in January alone. Each of those cakes has affected at least one child.

“[Families] don't have to choose between paying a bill and celebrating their child's birthday. We make that possible for them,” Campbell said.

Volunteers involve their families, too. Campbell’s husband, Bill, and their adult sons, Tyler and Nolan, complete deliveries sometimes.

Volunteer Farah Syed joined Cake4Kids at the start of 2020 after moving from New York to Ashburn. She was looking for ways to get involved in her new community when she saw Cake4Kids on Facebook.

She dove into baking when she left her teaching career. “Once I had my daughter, I had to put a lot of things aside, but baking was always there,” she said. “That helped me when I was not teaching.”

When her son was born, she was too busy to bake, but Cake4Kids brought it back to her.

For some volunteers, baking is their forte. Bristow resident Phyllis Maggio bakes for local school shows and events and crochets for charities when she’s not volunteering for Cake4Kids. For others, it’s one way to help.

But volunteers do not need to be expert bakers or commit to a certain number of hours, although Cake4Kids will reimburse bakers up to $100 a year for classes.

“We put a lot of pressure on ourselves because we want to deliver the most amazing thing … but [the kids are] happy … if their name is on it, it’s all theirs, and they picked it,” Campbell said.

“It seems like a very simple thing,” she added: a cake for a kid. But Cake4Kids’ impact extends from volunteers to their families, from kids to their case workers, and more.

“It’s not only me, it’s the whole community getting together and making this one child’s day,” Syed said.

Maggio noted that at a minimum just a box of mix and some icing will remind a child that they matter. “It costs you nothing to be kind, but it might be worth everything to the person you help.”

Syed said that by providing the cakes, the organization builds children’s self-confidence and sense of belonging in a community.

“The main goal is to make sure that all children are feeling loved and special,” she said. ““No matter what you’re going through, someone is caring about you.”

7News Helping Hands, Easterns Automotive Group surprise Cake4Kids with $2,200!

By WJLA

March 27, 2023

Thousands of children around the DMV experience their birthdays without a birthday cake. In fact, some say they have never received one. That's why one Fairfax county nonprofit called Cake4Kids is working to change that.

It's something you might not think of, but unfortunately it happens all the time.

"It never occurred to me that children go without a birthday cake and that broke my heart," said Mary Campbell, owner of nonprofit Cake4Kids. "It's homeless children, it's children in domestic violence shelters, it's foster children, it's children in immigration services, and it's children with free and reduced lunch. We do a lot of Title I schools."

That's why Campbell is making a difference in her Fairfax County kitchen through her nonprofit.

"I thought, 'How would I feel if it was my child's birthday and I wasn't able to provide something?' So I wanted to be able to bring something here," Campbell said.

She does that with the help of 650 local volunteer bakers – many who say they aren't really bakers at all.

Patt Rossini, a volunteer said she had the chance to bake for a kid who has never had a cake before.

"It was a last-minute request for a Fort Nite cake, and later I got a 'thank you' picture with the child and that killed me," Rossini said.

7News and Easterns Automotive Group were inspired by Cake4Kids' mission and decided to surprise the nonprofit with a 7News Helping Hand.

"Cake4Kids is an amazing organization. You guys do something that many people take for granted by supporting those kids who might not have a cake for their birthday," said Joel Bassam from Easterns Automotive Group. "Using that secret ingredient of baking extra love into it and then delivering it to their home is an amazing way to support the community. We want to help you guys continue to do that by donating $2,200 so you can continue baking all of those cakes across the DMV."

Campbell was extremely grateful for the surprise donation. She says everything (and everyone) helps their goal of giving kids cakes on their birthdays a success.

"I say it all of the time, I am a small part of it," Campbell said. "It's all of us and everybody cares and that's the beauty of it."

Birthday cake delivery nonprofit hits major milestone

By John Franchi

March 6, 2023

SALT LAKE CITY — A local nonprofit organization is celebrating a milestone.

Cake4Kids of Northern Utah recently delivered its 1,000th cake to a child in need.

Becky Carroll began the northern Utah chapter in 2021 as a way to honor the memory of her grandparents who dedicated their lives to helping foster children. They passed away during the COVID-19 pandemic.

“I just wanted a way to honor their service,” Carroll said.

Cake4Kids delivers homemade birthday cakes to children who likely would not receive a cake on their special day without these donations.

The creations are intricate and no request from a child is impossible.

Cakes with different themes like bowling, Disney, and Lego are just a few examples of the delicious treats that helped children smile on their special day.

The effort requires a small army of volunteer bakers.

What began with about a dozen volunteers two years ago has grown to 250.

“We have a lot of moms like Alyssa and I that can't do a lot of things outside of the house, but I can bake a cake and deliver it to someone and still fit in time for my family,” Carroll said.

She was referring to Allysa Johanson who baked a candy-filled cake for a teenager.

Johanson has baked and donated about a dozen cakes since joining Cake4Kids.

“It warms your heart,” Johanson said. “There is nothing quite like knowing that somebody else is going to hopefully have that wow moment when they get their own cake.”

The cake baked by Johanson was delivered to the Children’s Service Society, a Utah organization with several missions including providing services to children in need of permanent families and assisting families caring for a relative’s child.

“I think about the girl that cake is going to and it almost brings me to tears because I know what it will mean to her,” said Alyssa Craven, the grand families director at Children’s Service Society.

Cake4Kids partners with several organizations like CSS to identify children in need of a birthday cake.

“We thought it would be perfect to get cakes into homes where children are usually experiencing trauma and working on healing,” Craven said. “The caregivers – the last thing on their mind is putting together a dessert.”

While volunteer bakers never get to meet the children who receive their delicious works of art, they know the time they spend in the kitchen is making a difference and that’s why they are ready to bake their next 1,000 cakes and beyond.

“I can't go in and stop bad things from happening, but you can spread joy,” Carroll said. “It’s really important to do little things that make people happy and that just brightens the world.”

Cake4Kids serves children in Cache, Box Elder, Weber, Davis, Tooele and Salt Lake counties.

Sweetest Surprise

By Cailtin Fillmore

Winter 2023

Everyone has a birthday—a special day dedicated to the moment that they entered this world. Birthdays carry symbolic significance and are celebrated with enthusiasm in most global cultures. But many children living in Monterey County do not experience the warmth, love, and individualized celebrations that most of us enjoy on our birthdays.

Cake4Kids began in 2010 with a sweet and simple mission: making sure that all children can celebrate their birthdays with cake. Since then, the nonprofit has delivered 40,000 cakes to children in refugee camps, group homes, foster care, and other settings associated with the 750 Cake4Kids partner agencies across the country. In Monterey County, children have blown out candles on 700 Cake4Kids creations since Jen Ibarra took the leap to start a local chapter of the nonprofit in 2020.

Ibarra serves as an operations manager for Cake4Kids and is a volunteer ambassador for the newly formed Monterey region of the Sunnyvale-based nonprofit. Ibarra got hooked on cake decorating after attempting a Winnie-the-Pooh cake for her first child’s first birthday. In the years that followed, Ibarra made birthday cakes for her four children’s special days as well as for other local children from her church or community who didn’t have a birthday cake.

When the COVID-19 pandemic was declared and many volunteer opportunities were unavailable, Ibarra discovered Cake4Kids and quickly established the Monterey chapter. “We recognize these kids have bigger needs, but that’s not all that’s needed for a child to have a full and happy life,” explains Ibarra. “They need to know they matter. During the [first waves of the] pandemic, one of our agencies told me it was the single most important thing they did because they were cut off from the kids as well. [The cakes provided] a crucial bridge to kids.”

More than 160 Monterey-area volunteer bakers sign on to an online portal to review the types of cakes that children have dreamed up.

Birthday boys and girls can choose the theme, colors, icing, and flavors they want, and the child’s name is always on the cake.

Volunteer Kiska Icard discovered Cake4Kids as a way to improve her baking skills while helping others during the initial waves of the pandemic. Icard was impressed with how simple it was to make a difference and cherishes the thank-you sentiments she received from a teen who loved her red velvet creation. “Go to the website and register. Do it now,” says Icard. “There is zero downside. You may volunteer as little or as much as you would like. It will make you a better baker, and a better person.”

Bakers of all skill levels come together to do something special for a child they will never meet. Instead, agency partners, such as Lori at Rancho Cielo, deliver the Cake4Kids creations on the volunteers’ behalf. Lori explains that many of the children she works with either never experienced getting a birthday cake or never received one that they did not have to share with other children in their group-living environment.

For Lori, Ibarra’s work to organize Cake4Kids in Monterey was perfect timing, as the children had become increasingly depressed and isolated during the pandemic’s shutdowns. A cheerful cake celebrating all of the child’s favorite things, from sharks to social media, was helpful. “A thank you is not enough,” says Lori about the volunteer bakers, who put so much love into the birthday cakes. “It can be hard for these kids to share emotions,” she says. “When you surprise them with something they’re not expecting . . . that they’re not forgotten, and someone did something just for them . . . wow, what an amazing feeling.”

For more information, visit cake4kids.org.

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